You can't undo

It was interesting to find out tonight when using my newest online dating app, Hinge, that they do not have an undo.  So when I was going through my list of guys who “like” me and not knowing if I should write them or not - I clicked on the “red x” so I could get to the next one.  It wasn’t until I reached the end of the list and I was told I didn’t have anymore likes that I was very concerned.  Where did they all go?  When I viewed their FAQ’s they were very; “it’s time to put your big girl panties on” kind of a response to it all - “they will be permanently removed and will no longer be able to reach you again.”  I feel like there should have been a final “ever” placed at the end for good emphasis.

I kind of wish certain things happened that way in life too.  Like when I kissed that weird guy freshman year at college on moving in day and he started following me around everywhere - it took whole semesters to discourage him from that behavior.  And what about that guy I told you about that wanted to “pet” me?  Well he showed up again and didn’t I just go out with him to the Women’s Museum.  I never thought someone could make the Women’s Museum creepy, but I still can’t listen to that monologue by Gilda Radner without looking over my shoulder and want to puke.

But, I guess you have the other side of it when you’re glad that you were able to undo.  I mean I haven’t found any guys like that or anything - let’s be honest here.  But, I have moments with loved ones and friends that I would never change.

One of those moments would be the introduction of my new blog!  I am very excited to be sharing this with you as I have been working on it for some time.  And it was y’all who suggested that I start the blog in the first place - so thank you!  I do hope that you enjoy it and everything that it has to offer.  I want to send my love to you for starting this idea!  I hope it is what you were expecting and more!